The Perfect Date plans are made, you feel nervous you get
the dry mouth and hands shake uncontrollable. The hour is up and its time to
pick up your date. Hairs not working, sweat palms become you and nervous energy
surrounds everything you do.
Dating is many things but more like a game, you need to
play more to win the perfect date. Some people have luck when it comes to a
thing called dating, when others must have do-overs just to get it right. But
just like life, it has rulers and if you obliged by them, you’ll win every time
First
Impression
How you look is not always everything but in this day and
age everybody is so caught up in social media’s Instagram , Facebook and whichever
else that they can get pictures just so that they have a visual of their
possible date. But don’t get me wrong one must have the primary things of a perfect
date , like good hygiene and a clean appearance can be an attractive tool when
looking for a date . Plus you feel great and you make yourself more alluring to your date , it shows that
you appreciate your appearance and that
your date should to.
Confidence
is Key
In everything that we do we need to be confident. Confidence
is a very sexy thing, there nothing more charming than someone who is
comfortable in their skin. By no way does this mean that you should be
annoying, cocky or egotistical. It only means that confidence is attractive and
if you don’t have it , then until you do I would advise that you fake it till
you make it and find you a perfect date.
Starting
the Conversation
Laughing is the best way to attract a perfect date. It
gains major brownie points, and also allows you to talk to them more. You must
keep your date interested, you should be almost mysterious and leave them wanting
more. Try to make the conversation funny, talk about good stories and ask questions
about them get into them, not spying but listening women love a man that can
listen and men love women that care about their interest. You don’t want to
talk about yourself too much though because that comes off a little
over-confident and don’t force the flow, just be you and keep the conversation
as natural as possible. Also, awkward silence is the worst thing you could
have. If that happens look around your surroundings to draw up something else to
talk about, be witty .
Show
‘em you’re Pearly Whites
Smiles can break the ice and it helps you and the other
person become more at ease. Smiling can get you everywhere, even a second date.
Smiles make the person more attractive rather than frowning, But remember not
to smile so much that you now appear like the Cheshire Cat from Alice and
Wonderland. Or worst a person that’s a little off and my need to be placed in a
strait jacket which is not a good look .
But a warm smile is comforting and welcoming to open any conversation and maybe
the beginnings of a wonderful relationship, to enjoyed a perfect date with that
special someone.
Always
mind your Manners
Since you were a kid, you were always told mind your
manners. Dating isn’t anything different, the biggest turn off is a person, man
or women, who is rude and obnoxious a definite no-no on a date but try and woo
your date instead, be as polite as possible all the time consistency is key . Some
people say that chivalry is dead, but I beg to differ I think that it is just dormant
and people need to think more about the other person than about their self’s,
men especially suffer from this. The times have seem to create a world of men
who are so into them self that selfie’s and twitter twits have now become the norm. But people let me tell
you if we want to have a perfect date and create a romantic relationship we
have to change just a little bit .
We have now taught you the rules so that you can win at
this thing we call love and the dating game every time, making sure to get to
your second, third or even fourth date. Play by the rules and always remember
be yourself. No one like a fake person.
